Raped in India
7:17 AMHumanity and violence |
Once upon a time, there was a nation. A place where in the number of rapes that happened each year outnumbered the overall sale of video games. A few years ago a shocking incident happened in the heart of the nation when a 23 year old girl boarded a bus with her boyfriend. The boy was knocked out and thrown out of the bus. The girl was raped by six men and thrown out like a ragged doll with an iron rod rammed inside her vagina, penetrating into her intestines. A human being was left to die on the road naked, wounded and deprived of any human rights. The nation proudly begs for taxes it never deserved from honest citizens towards whom it was never accountable for. Where was the protection she deserved? Still the justice has not been served. The culprits smile from behind the safety of the bars at the helplessness of her brother's fury.
Years passed and rapes became a part of our daily lives. In a nation where kids were supplied on a daily basis to its numerous red streets, was it really a question worth asking? Law and order situation in India is like cancer. It is spreading and we are becoming complacent to the pain. And in the near future Indian society will learn to accept crimes without questioning and keep focusing on the next day. But what amuse us the most, is when some individuals boast about the glory of Indian culture and heritage. To make it clear, a nation where a 6 year old girl is not safe at school doesn't have a culture. Savages and animals do have a better culture than that. When rapists and murderers were safeguarded by police and human rights activists, there exists no culture to be proud at all. If this goes any forward, the day will soon come when our children are back home late and their excuse will be that they were raped and missed the bus.
A few weeks ago a legitimate international tennis star was attacked by Indians because she wasn't aware of an entertainer who lived off the glory that belonged to Indian athletes. But when two girls were hanging from a tree instead of a swing hanging from a tree with smiling girls on it, the same folks were debating about the morality of those two girls. That is exactly the curse this nation is seeking salvation from. Indians doesn't have the same intensity of rage against rapists and murderers that they have against Maria Sharapova. What pisses me off is that the criminal who committed the crime walks free, after just three years of sentence once it was proved that he was a teenager. So concerned our legal mechanism is about the rights of teenagers, isn't it? This makes me respect those criminals in US prison system who repeatedly rape convicts incarcerated for molesting children. If they were old enough to rape then they must be old enough to face the consequences. I am sure this uproar against rapes and violence will drain when Aishwariya Rai Bacchan gets pregnant for the second or third time. All because we are puppets raped each day by our media houses, political parties or our own conscience. The irony is that during the birth of India and Pakistan, thousands were raped and murdered. We should have responded then if we had guts and culture. But never the less, the day is celebrated year after year. The day when thousands of innocent civilians were raped and murdered is now dubbed the Independence day. It is time for Indians to introspect the meaning of the word - freedom.
We feel raped when we seek justice, when we are wronged and we trust a higher authority to ensure order to our lives and that of our fellow beings. We feel raped when we are forced to pay bribes for even a passport identification or to register our house which we built brick by brick from our own sweat. We feel raped when our sister is taunted by the same masses who feel strongly against the rapes in the society and call her a "chick". The same righteous folk who have an opinion about every issue that they don't have the guts to stand up and react to. We feel bloody raped when a terrorist walks into our city and guns down every soul in his sight, just to live a life of luxury in a high security cell supplied with a gym, best food in the nation and all the protection we are deprived for generations. We feel raped twice when he dies of dengue fever!
Our soul is murdered politicians break into the funeral of patriots like Maj. Sandeep Unnikrishnan and create a scene than shut up and pay respect that the man deserves. Our conscience is mutilated when politically motivated groups force us to speak some stupid language which we do not speak, to stay in a city even after paying all the rents and taxes. We are tortured when the price of petrol is raised each day just because "the oil companies" need to be rescued. It is us who are raped when we wait in lines to give our sweet little children the best education possible even though after paying fee, donation and whatever, but still their security is not guaranteed at a time when this nation promises free and quality education. Then we are further cornered when we expect fair medical treatment and gets the surprise of my life waiting in hospital corridors without hope. We are a generation of slaves who accepted every torture upon us and kept going forward with our lives. Our dreams were murdered each time when we think about the future this world holds for our children. We are raped throughout our lives either physically or psychologically or financially. Rapes will not end by holding protests. It is time for people of this nation to take a stand against such heinous crimes that threat the foundations of our existence. Let our nation rise to the moment, than let a deep fear run wild so that one day it is anarchy.
Years passed and rapes became a part of our daily lives. In a nation where kids were supplied on a daily basis to its numerous red streets, was it really a question worth asking? Law and order situation in India is like cancer. It is spreading and we are becoming complacent to the pain. And in the near future Indian society will learn to accept crimes without questioning and keep focusing on the next day. But what amuse us the most, is when some individuals boast about the glory of Indian culture and heritage. To make it clear, a nation where a 6 year old girl is not safe at school doesn't have a culture. Savages and animals do have a better culture than that. When rapists and murderers were safeguarded by police and human rights activists, there exists no culture to be proud at all. If this goes any forward, the day will soon come when our children are back home late and their excuse will be that they were raped and missed the bus.
A few weeks ago a legitimate international tennis star was attacked by Indians because she wasn't aware of an entertainer who lived off the glory that belonged to Indian athletes. But when two girls were hanging from a tree instead of a swing hanging from a tree with smiling girls on it, the same folks were debating about the morality of those two girls. That is exactly the curse this nation is seeking salvation from. Indians doesn't have the same intensity of rage against rapists and murderers that they have against Maria Sharapova. What pisses me off is that the criminal who committed the crime walks free, after just three years of sentence once it was proved that he was a teenager. So concerned our legal mechanism is about the rights of teenagers, isn't it? This makes me respect those criminals in US prison system who repeatedly rape convicts incarcerated for molesting children. If they were old enough to rape then they must be old enough to face the consequences. I am sure this uproar against rapes and violence will drain when Aishwariya Rai Bacchan gets pregnant for the second or third time. All because we are puppets raped each day by our media houses, political parties or our own conscience. The irony is that during the birth of India and Pakistan, thousands were raped and murdered. We should have responded then if we had guts and culture. But never the less, the day is celebrated year after year. The day when thousands of innocent civilians were raped and murdered is now dubbed the Independence day. It is time for Indians to introspect the meaning of the word - freedom.
We feel raped when we seek justice, when we are wronged and we trust a higher authority to ensure order to our lives and that of our fellow beings. We feel raped when we are forced to pay bribes for even a passport identification or to register our house which we built brick by brick from our own sweat. We feel raped when our sister is taunted by the same masses who feel strongly against the rapes in the society and call her a "chick". The same righteous folk who have an opinion about every issue that they don't have the guts to stand up and react to. We feel bloody raped when a terrorist walks into our city and guns down every soul in his sight, just to live a life of luxury in a high security cell supplied with a gym, best food in the nation and all the protection we are deprived for generations. We feel raped twice when he dies of dengue fever!
Our soul is murdered politicians break into the funeral of patriots like Maj. Sandeep Unnikrishnan and create a scene than shut up and pay respect that the man deserves. Our conscience is mutilated when politically motivated groups force us to speak some stupid language which we do not speak, to stay in a city even after paying all the rents and taxes. We are tortured when the price of petrol is raised each day just because "the oil companies" need to be rescued. It is us who are raped when we wait in lines to give our sweet little children the best education possible even though after paying fee, donation and whatever, but still their security is not guaranteed at a time when this nation promises free and quality education. Then we are further cornered when we expect fair medical treatment and gets the surprise of my life waiting in hospital corridors without hope. We are a generation of slaves who accepted every torture upon us and kept going forward with our lives. Our dreams were murdered each time when we think about the future this world holds for our children. We are raped throughout our lives either physically or psychologically or financially. Rapes will not end by holding protests. It is time for people of this nation to take a stand against such heinous crimes that threat the foundations of our existence. Let our nation rise to the moment, than let a deep fear run wild so that one day it is anarchy.
“When a man is denied the right to live the life he believes in, he has no choice but to become an outlaw.”
~ Nelson Mandela
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What's worse is when educated people start a discourse on 'how far should a school be responsible for a child's security'. I hope this incident brings out the righteous anger in all people who formerly settled for the 'she was asking for it arguments' and helps to bring some stringent measures at the very least in our schools.
ReplyDeleteI am a visiting faculty in St. Joseph's College for Women. Yes they are adults whom I teach but I believe that it is the responsibility of that of mine when the class is going on and until the student leaves the campus it is the institution that is accountable for whatever that goes within their premises. There must be a coordinated effort between parents, students and teachers.
DeleteDuring my school days (20 years ago) our headmaster (principal) would never go to cops if he used to find folks pestering girls. He calls the entire neighborhood and catch the pest, tie him up and give a nice beat down. Well it is against the law but it worked! And everyone in the locality knew the code of conduct. The nation lacks discipline and accountability. We have learnt to adjust, point fingers and move on. I guess that is the problem.
* This is mere a personal opinion of an enraged and helpless citizen
In this case, I have a different opinion. The way things work in Indian society is different, I mean the social conditioning. Its just that society at large is insensitive. For instance, I saw a kid begging in the street and people (educated) just pass by the child. When my friend passed a piece of sandwich, she was looked down by the pedestrians in a weird way. Well we know child beggars were controlled by begging mafia but India have laws to protect rights of those children and they are insensitive. And will that child be responsible to the people who didnt bat an eye while he was starving? Similarly and slowly the nation had turned into a vast insensitive and ruthless jungle. We accept what we want to accept and are on a constant "pointing finger mode". In case of rapes, its just that those men who feel sexually frustrated fails to see the woman or the emotions but focus on the final commodity - sexual gratification. Even in Indian films, this same concept reflects, villain is the one who lose the race to the final kiss. So are exams in India. So are financial goals of many business houses that means once you part with the money, honour doesn't even count. The warranty conditions for Dell or Apple in USA is far different than in India. The concept of society in India is at its weakest. Well it is a massive topic involving a lot of social psychology. Making it short I may conclude that, we must spend time understanding the vibes of our society, expressing our genuine love and care than shoving an iphone or a gold bracelet into the hands of those well of friends who may in return help us. End note, how many people had we called or met and wished for their B'day than messing up their wall with a generic - Happy Birthday.
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